A person needs to be able to think for himself and to know what he wants and the stand up for it.
Because one day he will be the head of the family. He will be the one who makes decisions and lead. Of course two person in the relationship communicate and discuss but eventually he will have to stand up to make decisions.
Someone who can think for themselves and know for sure what they wanted and not being swayed easily by what others said.
Yes family is important and with all respect, they are to be honored.
However as an individual, you really need to know this and able to think for yourself. And be brave.
My life is in you. My hope is in you. I am not alone. You are here with me. Thank you Lord for your Son, Jesus Christ. Thank you for your unfailing love, thank you for you know my heart, thank you for you are my healer, my comforter. Lord, have your way in me. Lord, come and fill me.
Psalm 8:1-9 NIV
 Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth! You have set your glory in the heavens.  Through the praise of children and infants you have established a stronghold against your enemies, to silence the foe and the avenger.  When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place,  what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them?  You have made them a little lower than the angels and crowned them with glory and honor.  You made them rulers over the works of your hands; you put everything under their feet:  all flocks and herds, and the animals of the wild,  the birds in the sky, and the fish in the sea, all that swim the paths of the seas.  Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!
“No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”—